“Relation is a bond between persons who may not be equal in qualification, talent, money or age. But equal in their commitment to understand each other”.
Most of us have some kind of idea in our minds about how a “good” or “correct” relationship is supposed to be. We can cause ourselves needless distress by comparing our own relationships with such an idea of what a relationship “should be like” and then concluding that our own is defective by comparison.
There are many kinds of relationships, and a given kind may fit a given person or couple at one stage of development but not at another. Driven by our personal history, we choose partners who help us meet our present needs, fulfill our expectations, and if we’re lucky, work through our issues and grow in the directions in which we need to grow
We all know some couples who seem so mismatched that we wonder how they ever got together, yet who have learned to enjoy each other and live together happily. Other couples seem so devoted to mutual punishment that we wonder how they stay together. Still others, by contrast, appear to be the perfect pair until we hear they’re splitting up or getting a divorce.
Of course human behavior and experience seldom fit neatly into tidy categories in which we are only either this or that. Most real relationships are a little of this and a little of that. Ultimately people prefer to living alone which will end up with depression and stress. People may keep their distance from others because of fears and insecurities. Someone may be fulfilled enough on his or her own and feel no strong need for a partner. Self-nurturing relationship with oneself is an important category of relationship, one which is all the more important when a person is in fact living alone. At the same time, it is important to have others available to call on when the need arises.
Difficulties in relationships are viewed here as “problems in living.”
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